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In season two of Grace and Frankiethe popular Netflix show starring the hot comedy duo of Jane Fonda and Lily Tomlin as women in their sixties whose husbands have just left them, the best buddies have an epiphany and decide to create a vibrator for people who have mobility issues.
MilhausenPhD, "because the range of things available is almost as unlimited as your imagination. Some have more visible difficulties. Others are aging or have arthritis or menopause or hormonal changes. All of our different bodies have different needs, and those are gonna change throughout our lifespan, and so it's really great that there's a huge range of different types of products that mean all of us can access sexual pleasure.
If you're reading this, you're probably interested in enhancing your sexual pleasure — or are at least a little curious about tools that can help with that. And you're not alone. As Veronica Kazoleas, a social psychologist and owner of Toronto-based sexuality shop The Nookiewas quick to point out, a lot more people own sex toys than you might think. We talked to Milhausen and Kazoleas about what to keep in mind when looking for the best sex toy or tool for you — no matter your stage of life or your ability.
Walking into a sex shop can be an intimidating experience, but today you're likely to find friendly staff who are extremely knowledgeable and will converse with you without any judgment. Here are some things they'll likely say are worth thinking about before you make a visit.
Make note of what type of sex you'd like to have and what turns you on ; knowing yourself, at least a little, is key.
Are you looking to bring a sex toy into a couples experience, or use it for some solo time? If you have a vagina, do you want something for clitoral stimulation or penetration? What about anal penetration? It's helpful to think of all of the above for a few important reasons. If it's a penis, oftentimes, you're looking for something that can surround or envelop the penis, and they have penis sleeves or sheaths, which are really great for that.
You also might be looking for perineum stimulation, and actually so might female-bodied folks. Thinking about where you want the stimulation We're talking about the body, so materials matter. She also advises keeping budget in mind. And do a bit of research before purchasing anything online. One thing you might not have at the top of your mind when shopping is where you want to put your toy — and how those parts of the body function differently. Kazoleas suggests, if both you and your partner are into bum play, that you grab a separate apparatus for each of you to use.
If you want to keep your frisky business to yourself, Milhausen says to look for a toy with a quiet motor. She also recommends looking into an app-based toy for solo play: "Hands-free can be a benefit for people with mobility issues and also for people who want to use a sex toy on their own but sort of feel like they're getting the partner experience. Also worth noting, says Kazoleas, is the size of buttons and controls on your solo sex toy — some can be hard to use depending on your mobility. You should also think about how much sensation you're comfortable starting with. How fast do you want it to move?
Can you control how strong the toy is? As women age, our hormones fluctuate so much that it can send our sex organs into Sahara territory. Aside from vaginal dryness during sex which affects young and old, up to 17 per cent of women ages 18 to 50, according to one British reportthere's also the issue of decreased blood flow.
To address this, look for a clitoral suction device. For those with penises, erectile dysfunction may be a concern with age. But that doesn't mean you can't get down — and get off. Vibration on the head of a penis [can] make it ejaculate, even without an erection. Kazoleas also encourages the use of constrictive bands for penises commonly known as cock ringswhich can help someone maintain an erection if they tend to lose it — something that can happen for a variety of reasons.
The magic wand—type toy has stood the test of time, with good reason. If you put a pillow or a towel over it, you can limit FREE FREE brand new sex toy never been used vibration, or you can use it as is. Milhausen also recommends smaller toys for a different type of stimulation. Having a sex toy that attaches to your body can be really helpful. Kazoleas concurs and takes that notion even further. Aches, pains and injuries can really hinder how hot things can get. But thankfully, there are some sexy options to help in this department, too.
Kazoleas also suggests thinking inside the BDSM or bondage box if movement is a barrier for you. For instance, there are straps that can be used to help pull something closer or help increase the intensity of thrusting with someone who needs assistance. Tools like feathers, Wartenberg wheels basically little metal wheels with tiny, sharp spikes and blindfolds can all add to the realm of pleasure possibilities. Whether you're miles away from your partner or there's something getting in the way of you having what would be called a "traditional" experience, there are now toys and apps that can help you virtually experience sexual pleasure.
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